We can really "love"?

There is a story is like this:

A little boy pool found his pet turtle legs in the air , life lost, can not help but heartbroken . His father to tried comfort him, told him : "Do not cry , son, so be it! we Turtle , Mr. hold a funeral , crispness to be a with silk lined coffin , then please hand it faces vertical a Tombstone , engraved with its name. then, every day we in its grave offer fresh flowers , graves around, and then nailed a small wooden blocks , giving it around a cemetery . "

The little boy listened to wipe away tears, excitedly for Turtle Mr. preparing the funeral of . All RBI completed, by the father, mother , little boy still butler consisting of funeral procession on the seriousness, the arrival the pool , ready to " Move Spirit " buried , they found the body gone.

Everybody was astounded and up look , and eventually found turtle a happy from the pond emerge head , leisurely in swim it! boy Staring back from the dead 's "friends" , showing very disappointed expression , stop for a moment, he began : "We kill him , how ? "

This is a what story of ah ! purely children made by Child language , jokes one it? Or profound point out many people the blind spot of it ─ ─ We love , often not really love each other, but because love each other and can enjoy the of love pleasure .

I thought the other on "love "story , it is the Nobel Peace Prize winner Mother Teresa experienced the one thing.

On one occasion, held in Mumbai in a on hunger huge conference , Mother Teresa also invited to the list, but she went to the venue on the way lost his way , so that delay time, rushed to the venue , the meeting has begun. On the the hall front of , she found a because of starvation dying , while the hall among the attending the delegates are talk , how to fifteen years within produce to enough food to solve the problem of hunger . A wall outside a living person about to starve to death. Mother Theresa immediately the man brought she set up the hospice will, but could not save his life , he was dead.

Mother Teresa feeling is : if we spend too much of the mind and other people talking about the poor, we would not have time to with the poor really talk , some people will make some fine words , published talk , but never thing the real Action.

Because of her profound experience of this, she would take practical the care of action to care for countless poor people, poor people, by Jesus given under the love to love those who she did not understanding have need of love. In those operations, without any expectations, only the unconditional giving. She said : "If a man do these things are intended to win the of others praise , at best, can only cook one year , no more , and only in those things for Jesus and do it to carry on . "

By the turtle and the little boy to Mother Theresa , it seems , there is no relationship between the two stories , but I even in a think time , can escape a deeper understanding of what is " love . " You, these two stories can give you some think ?