How should parents encourage their children ( 5 )

Talked about how parents should encourage their children , in fact, to encourage the process, parents try their own values , life, or even moral rules , etc. to the child , so parents encourage their children before the parents themselves should first establish a correct Biblical principle or truth values , so as to understand how to influence to encourage their own children. If you know God , we should always learn from the Word of God in the proper outlook on life, so we teach children in the middle to affect them. If you still do not know God , you come to consider the values of Christian education for children is the best .

When we encourage children , why our values , our own views so important? As we encourage children , I must stress that we have seen children do a thing , we should encourage him. Not to say that you are doing well , you do well, you do good , not so very general . We encourage the children , we will tell his mother proud of you, you do these things well , why do better , because 11 you should tell him. For example, he painted a picture that you draw a good site , can not stop here , you have to tell him how you feel , tell why you think this picture is good, or good color match , or paint Like . You should tell him your feelings , when you tell when you pass values in . He slowly in conversations with you to find the original of this painting is good because of this, since I knew could do it, I will paint it . Dad should be encouraged so that each person is praise are very pleased when the heart is open, and he fully according to a single receiver , he knew such a thing after the encounter , can be one, two , three, four such Do , will do right well , knew them , my parents took the right moral values , the importance of values, even in this life to encourage them to speak up.

Children grow up , often in a kind of exploration of the situation , and did not know their real strengths , strengths are , do not know what should be chosen in university departments . Often a lot of struggle and confusion , parents of the child should get to know more before we know how to follow their special aptitudes , expertise, strengths , to encourage them a character for them , for the way they can . So how can the parents to understand it ? The performance of a child from a child , you will gradually know, if not pay attention to childhood when the child's aptitude you would not know, I ( Zhu teacher) will often give an example : My love , his father for him Great attention , his aptitude and love crystal clear , the university entrance exam , he knew his father aptitude , encourages all of his subjects favor to occupy Department of Mechanical Engineering , Department of unrelated other it is saying that he did not fill in his life were Do not waste your life , because his father knew his son's sexual orientation since childhood , what he was doing good , just like his analysis , what good would encourage him to do very well son's aptitude , encouraged him to play in the natural dispositions of , I hope God has given all of the parents have such wisdom , the children have a correct understanding and knowledge .
For the needs of parents and children often about his favorite subject , you talk to him about a favorite subject, he would issue his heart deeply , suddenly thrown out of the relationship between you and your child will get better and better established , so Parents should be willing to spend time talking with the children . Some parents feel that children with speech , which children know what , we can not have such a heart to see us children , even very small children , we must cast aside squatted down and talk to him , you will find a child inside the heart Many words to tell you. Often in many places , there are some problems children are naughty , often taken to one side talk to him , with him playing , he told you many problems .

Several months before a child in Taiwan is leather , I'll call him aside to talk to him . A talk he told me he hated his father because his father beat his mother , took his mother 's money to drink . He was incredibly bad in school , beat Zou Ren , especially seeing people being bullied even more play fighting , the teacher of his incredibly headache . But a talk with him , because his father behind him so to his mother , when we to understand the issue of his soul , when the children began to solve the problem , he found that there are individuals so much about him . I told him that Can remember the class , there are five colors - black, white , green, red , gold . Black, is your sin , hitting his brother , playing as black students , but the blood of Jesus wash you, you have no sin , and as white as snow , God 's blessing to bring you a lot , you do not wish to Health and Dad are willing to air every time , you begin to pray for the father , the father one day know God , are you willing to do so ? Very wonderful, God's grace into his heart , he said he was willing to do so. Each color to remember these things , because we gave him the bracelet , when I see these kind of color on the recall , we could have been black, because the red blood of Jesus , so that we become white, white The future is green, we can have lives, then God will take us to heaven , it is glorious .

Of course no guarantee that the future, how to sample, but at least in his life which he feels there are still people know him , some people still love him , some people still pray for him. Unfortunately his parents can not do this responsibility , but we do this thing in the church . Today I heard the show 's parents , we want you in God's heart , every time he has done good, to encourage him, and he explained why he had to do with the good , the good ideas were planted in his life The future, he can harvest . Bad reaction to some of the children , we still keep the love and patience to ask him why , we asked him how this is so, Why not you ask him patience , he will tell you that when he told you, you Pray for him , the Holy Spirit into him, and the Holy Spirit to do amazing work. Because thank God , today we educate our children is not a person go it alone , man Creation of the King, the master of creation , he is willing to work with us . Even in front of us how difficult the case , God in this place , I always have hope , why? I saw many young children , as if taken away by evil , but the Lord has said, "is the Warriors can win back the captivity , rape people can grab the rescue , to compete with you , I will be with him To compete , I want to save for your children "This is God 's great promise to , no matter how difficult the case, by God , we still have hope . He wants to work with us the same , to help our next generation , listeners willing to work together with us .

Zhu Manhua teacher to lead us pray to God :Lord of all things contained , and we thank you , because you give us baby 's industry , is to me the next generation . Jesus is willing to love their parents come to us all , upon our next generation , let their parents filled with love , filled with your grace into the lives of our children, which , as you enter our parents Among life . Lord , we are willing to take your love , with your ability, with your understanding with your love , with you that will never change the love into the lives of our children were . Lord Jesus Christ , because you love them love , you give us wisdom , let us bring our children completely in front of Jesus Christ , so that they can fully understand you, you will grow up to become the pillars of the family , The elite troops . Lord, you own the middle of our next generation , the rise of a people holy to serve you and also willing to give all of our parents have the power to do , no matter what we are now in a difficult environment, the main you have to help us . Lord you are waiting for your people shall not be ashamed , you cry for your people must be saved . Lord , for our next generation , in front of you We cry to you , we wait , we pray , wish you were in our next generation to do , far more than in our generation , willing to move us to the spirit of the previous generation to double Move us to the next generation , to bless all of our parents, bless all of us young people, so we are grateful to pray the Lord Jesus Christ 's holy name , Amen !